How do you strengthen your self-confidence to talk to your potential partner more comfortably?
Here are some tips to be more confident in your conversations and to increase someone else’s chances of liking you. It is hard to talk to someone who you haven’t seen, interacted with, or met yet. But shyness is not the answer. The other person often feels it and loses interest in the conversation, as a lack of self-confidence suggests a weakness in personality.
To be more confident, here are some advices from AlKhattaba:
First, be satisfied with yourself by eating healthy food and exercising regularly. You’ll feel better and you’ll be more confident in your ability to attract the other person and your willingness to meet them face-to-face in the right time will increase.
Second, renew your looks by renewing your clothes. Nothing feels like buying some nice new clothes and wearing them right away. It gives you a new momentum and refreshes your confidence and satisfaction with your appearance.
Thirdly, accept praises. If the other side admires your eyes for example, thank them and give them another compliment rather than arguing or criticizing yourself.
Fourth, speak positively about yourself and not about your weaknesses or negative sides. Let the other person find out what’s best about you. And always remember to stay honest and normal!
Fifth, say: I’m attractive and anyone would be happy to talk to me. That’s the truth. You’re beautiful and you have a beautiful soul. Don’t let too much anxiety hide that.
Sixth, overcome your fear: Whenever you feel hesitant in one of your conversations, take a deep breath and say whatever that comes to your mind without overthinking. Little by little, your circle of fear will shrink and your courage will increase even in critical conversations.
Seventh, Express yourself in all day-to-day situations. Don’t suppress talks about simple problems or beautiful moments or controversial conversations, start by breaking your silence and saying what you have and soon your shyness will disappear.
And don’t forget. If you’re feeling shy, the person you’re talking to is probably feeling the same way, and this might be a sign that they like you!
You’re not alone dear. So many young men and women got confused at the beginning of their conversations and ended up in a happy marriage with AlKhattaba!
